MENGATASI KECANDUAN MEDIA SOSIAL DALAM PERNIKAHAN: PERAN KONSELOR PASTORAL DALAM MEMPERKUAT KOMITMEN PASANGAN

Authors

  • Fhilia Alci Angela Asman Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Manado Author
  • Charga Jofial Rumate Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Manado Author
  • Geby Ladesya Kalensang Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Manado Author
  • Feiby Paulin Makakombo Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Manado Author
  • Fony Baraa Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Manado Author
  • Semuel Selanno Semuel Selanno Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Manado Author

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.70420/vcyed379

Abstract

This study aims to explore the impacts of social media addiction on marriage, as well as the role of pastoral counselors in assisting couples to overcome such addiction and strengthen their marital commitment. Social media addiction can disrupt face-to-face communication, diminish the quality of shared time, and enhance feelings of detachment. Moreover, unrealistic social comparisons and online conflicts can erode trust and stability within marriage, even increasing the risk of divorce. Through a qualitative approach, this research will identify effective strategies and methods employed by pastoral counselors to address the negative impacts of social media addiction on marital dynamics. It is hoped that the findings of this study will provide profound insights into the importance of the pastoral counselor's role in supporting couples to overcome social media addiction and fortify their marital commitment.

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2024-10-14

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MENGATASI KECANDUAN MEDIA SOSIAL DALAM PERNIKAHAN: PERAN KONSELOR PASTORAL DALAM MEMPERKUAT KOMITMEN PASANGAN. (2024). ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling, 1(3), 61-74. https://doi.org/10.70420/vcyed379