ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling
ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling (AJTPK) is a Scientific Journal published by PT. Giat Konseling Nusantara (GKN) which is a publishing, training, certification, and research institution in the field of Pastoral Counseling Theology. Name ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling (AJTPK).Taken from the Sangihe language, it means a guide and leader of the boat's journey, containing the meaning of the local wisdom of the Sangihe tribe which points to the Lord Jesus as the Great Guide and Leader in human life. ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling (AJTPK) has also collaborated with Asosiasi Poimenika Indonesia (APIN) The cooperation carried out is in the fields of Research, Publishing, and Development of scientific fields relevant to each institution, which contribute to each other in the framework of scientific development in the fields of Pastoral Counseling Theology and Christian Education. Then, in order to realize the Tridarma of Higher Education, ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling (AJTPK) also in collaboration with Program Studi S2 Pastoral Konseling Pascasarjana Institut Agama Kristen Negeri Manado. ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling (AJTPK) will publish scientific articles four times a year, namely in January, April, July, and October each year. ATOHEMA: Jurnal Teologi Pastoral Konseling (AJTPK) has a focus and scope of scientific research in the field of: 1. Theology 2. Pastoral Counseling 3. Christian Religious Education 4. Missiology 5. Sociology of Religion and Culture 6. Psychology 7. Church Music
MEMBINGKAI KEMBALI MEMORI SEBAGAI UPAYA MEMBANGUN PEMULIHAN HOLISTIK
This article aims to discuss how humans can avoid trauma from the bad experiences they encounter in life, which can lead to a decline in mental health and disrupt the human mind. In human life, one cannot escape various kinds of incidents, such as the loss of a loved one in a tragic way, being robbed, accidents, bullying, and many more. By reframing memories or events that have occurred, it can be the most effective way to build holistic recovery. Because the recovery process from trauma requires methods that are considered appropriate and suitable, such as psychological approaches, which can help reduce trauma and build resilience. Therefore, this research aims to analyze how recalling memories can help people make peace with those memories, through photos, videos, and perhaps places that were once visited together.
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Misi Kristiani di Tengah Pluralitas: Dialog Iman sebagai Wujud Kesaksian Injil
This article examines the mission of the church within the context of religious and cultural pluralism in Indonesia by emphasizing interfaith dialogue as a relevant and contextual form of Christian witness. In a plural society vulnerable to identity-based conflicts and intolerance, the church is called to engage in mission not through exclusive or confrontational approaches, but through dialogical practices that respect human dignity and religious diversity. Grounded in the paradigm of Missio Dei, this study affirms that mission is the church’s participation in God’s ongoing work of love, justice, and reconciliation in the world. Through theological and biblical reflection, interfaith dialogue is understood not as syncretism or theological compromise, but as a faithful and incarnational expression of gospel witness. The article demonstrates that interfaith dialogue has strong biblical foundations and offers significant implications for contemporary churches, particularly in fostering interreligious relationships, social engagement, and transformative presence within Indonesia’s plural society.
ADIKSI GAME ONLINE SEBAGAI TANTANGAN PERKEMBANGAN REMAJA: ANALISIS EMPIRIS DAN RESPON PASTORAL KRISTEN
Online game addiction has become a significant developmental challenge for adolescents, particularly in Indonesia with its rapidly growing population of digital game users. This study aims to analyze the phenomenon of online game addiction among adolescents by integrating recent empirical findings with a Christian pastoral-theological perspective. Using a literature review approach, this research examines the causes, symptoms, and psychosocial effects of gaming addiction and interprets their implications for character formation and spiritual maturity. Empirical studies indicate that addiction arises from a combination of internal factors—including the need for recognition, emotional escape, and low self-control—and external factors such as ineffective parenting, peer pressure, and reward-based game design. Its impact extends beyond emotional, social, and academic impairment, affecting adolescents’ spirituality through diminished spiritual disciplines and weakened identity formation. Theologically, addiction is understood as a distortion of freedom and relational wholeness, hindering the adolescent’s growth toward maturity in Christ. This study emphasizes the necessity of a holistic pastoral response through relational guidance, family involvement, and the cultivation of spiritual disciplines as essential strategies for recovery and the strengthening of adolescents’ spiritual identity in the digital age.
AJARAN EKAM SAT VIPRA BAHUDHA VADANTI SEBAGAI PARADIGMA BERINTERAKSI DALAM KEHIDUPAN MASYARAKAT MAJEMUK
The teaching of Ekam Sat Vipra Bahudha Vadanti “Truth is one, though the wise call it by many names”offers a meaningful framework for interreligious engagement in diverse societies. Rather than treating other religions as theological systems to be judged or criticized, this study shows that they are understood as authentic and meaningful expressions of spirituality. Such an understanding resonates with John Hick’s view of a transcendent reality that is encountered and interpreted through different religious and cultural traditions. The pluralistic outlook that emerges from this reflection is not merely theoretical but grows out of lived philosophical reflection and everyday social experience. In this way, the findings contribute to and enrich Paul Knitter’s typology of interreligious relations. The religious life of the Hindu community at Pura Jagadhita Taas illustrates a distinctive and dynamic form of religious practice, marked by a high degree of fluidity. Here, religious communication is shaped less by rigid doctrinal claims and more by shared ethical values such as harmony, moral virtue, and respect for human dignity. Seen in this light, Ekam Sat functions not as an abstract theological formula, but as a lived spiritual orientation one that encourages inclusive social attitudes and strengthens cohesion within pluralistic communities.
Intervensi Konseling Untuk Mengatasi Toxic Parenting
Toxic parenting refers to destructive parenting patterns that negatively affect a child’s development. This harmful parenting style is characterized by behaviors such as excessive control, verbal abuse, emotional neglect, and unrealistic expectations toward children. These conditions can lead to various mental health problems in children, including low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, as well as aggressive or withdrawn behavior. Moreover, toxic parenting often persists across generations if left unaddressed. This article discusses a counseling case study of a family demonstrating toxic parenting practices, along with intervention efforts aimed at improving the parenting dynamics. The method employed is a descriptive qualitative single-case study, with data collected through observation and counseling interviews. The findings indicate that toxic parenting within the family led to emotional and behavioral problems in the child; however, through intensive counseling intervention, improvements were observed in parental communication patterns and behavior. The discussion relates the case findings to relevant literature, affirming that parental awareness and professional assistance can break the cycle of toxic parenting. The conclusion emphasizes the importance of positive parenting education, emotional regulation, and effective communication for parents as preventive measures against toxic parenting, as well as the need for counseling support for families experiencing harmful parenting patterns.
PENDAMPINGAN KONSELOR BAGI KONSELI HAMIL DI LUAR NIKAH MELALUI CBT, BIBLIOTERAPI, DAN JOURNALING
Pregnancy outside marriage often produces deep psychological, moral, and spiritual crises accompanied by shame, fear, rejection, and identity confusion. Churches and Christian counselors frequently respond moralistically, failing to address the trauma and cognitive distortions experienced by young women in this situation. This study uses a descriptive qualitative approach through literature review, biblical-theological analysis (Psalm 34:18; John 8:1–11), and a synthesis of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), bibliotherapy, and therapeutic journaling within a pastoral counseling framework. The research proposes the Christian Supportive Counseling Model for Crisis Pregnancy (CSCM-CP), consisting of holistic assessment, emotional stabilization, cognitive restructuring, narrative reconstruction through bibliotherapy, journaling for self-integration, and spiritual healing. The study affirms that counselors must function as empathetic companions, not judges, by integrating psychological techniques with Christian values of grace, restoration, and accompaniment
PEMULIHAN KELUARGA DISFUNGSIONAL MELALUI INTERVENSI PASTORAL BERBASIS TEKNIK KONSELING RELASIONAL
The increasing number of dysfunctional Christian families, marked by emotional detachment, unresolved conflicts, communication breakdown, and spiritual disorientation, has led to a significant rise in pastoral cases related to family crises within local churches. Existing pastoral approaches often focus on moral correction or doctrinal teaching but lack a relational framework capable of rebuilding emotional bonds and repairing attachment wounds. This study aims to formulate a pastoral intervention model grounded in relational counseling techniques to restore trust, communication, and spiritual integrity in dysfunctional families. Using a descriptive qualitative method through theological literature review, pastoral counseling theory, family psychology, and biblical analysis of relational restoration texts such as Genesis 33, Hosea 11, Matthew 18, and Ephesians 4:25–32, this article develops the Relational Pastoral Counseling Intervention Model (RPCIM). The model integrates emotional regulation, empathic communication, relational reframing, forgiveness work, and spiritual covenant renewal. The findings show that relational counseling enables families to rebuild secure emotional attachment, clarify expectations, restore mutual dignity, and rediscover their identity as a covenantal community shaped by the love of Christ.
KETIKA MISI BERSINGGUNGAN DENGAN IDENTITAS AGAMA LAIN: TINJAUAN ETIS BERMISI LEWAT TIKTOK
This research is a literature study that explores the role of social media in the context of the church's mission, especially in efforts to reach and influence apologists in the digital age. The digital age has changed the way people interact, learn, and seek information, and churches have had to adapt to be relevant in fulfilling their mission. This study uses a qualitative approach with content analysis of Christian mission content on TikTok with several digital mission actors. The aim is to understand how messages of faith are constructed, conveyed and received in the context of a multireligious society in the digital space. The results show that the practice of mission on TikTok presents two sides: great potential in reaching the digital generation and affirming faith, but also ethical risks when missions are carried out without considering the sensitivity of other religions. From an ethical review, this study confirms the importance of carrying out the mission in a relevant way and contextual awareness. Reflective, communicative, and exclusive missions not only demonstrate faithfulness to Christ, but also present a peaceful testimony in the midst of a diversity of religious identities. By analyzing the existing literature, this study tries to answer some key questions that pose ethical dilemmas: how to stay true to the call to mission without hurting or offending other religious identities? God's mission must be accomplished.
PENDEKATAN KONSELING PASTORAL BERBASIS PSYCHODELSI DALAM DINAMIKA KELOMPOK TUMBUH BERSAMA: UPAYA MEMBANGUN KOMUNITAS YANG MENUMBUHKAN IMAN DI STTAM NIAS BARAT
This study explores the application of pastoral counseling within the dynamics of Growing Together Groups (Kelompok Tumbuh Bersama – KTB) as an effort to build a faith-nurturing community at the Anugerah Misi Theological Seminary (STTAM) West Nias. Using a qualitative descriptive approach, this research analyzes how pastoral counseling—particularly through the integration of the Psychodelsi model (Psycho, Deliverance, Spiritual)—can contribute to students’ spiritual growth and maturity. The study reveals that many theology students still carry unresolved emotional wounds, particularly anger toward their parents, which hinder their spiritual development. By employing pastoral counseling integrated with the Psychodelsi framework, students are guided through personal reflection (life story), psychological typology assessment, and spiritual deliverance to identify the roots of inner bitterness and to experience genuine forgiveness. The results indicate that the pastoral counseling process not only reduces emotional distress and anger but also leads to deeper spiritual renewal, reconciliation, and transformation of character. Furthermore, the integration of pastoral counseling principles within KTB strengthens community bonds, enhances accountability among members, and fosters an environment where faith can flourish through shared experiences of healing and discipleship. In conclusion, the study highlights that the Psychodelsi-based pastoral counseling approach provides a holistic and contextual framework for spiritual formation in theological education, making it an effective model for developing faith communities that embody Christlike maturity, compassion, and wholeness.
Merengkuh Kerapuhan: Upaya Pendampingan Pastoral dari Perspektif William A. Clebsch dan Charles R. Jaekle di SLB Agca Center Manado
Artikel ini membahas tentang pentingnya pendampingan pastoral bagi anak-anak berkebutuhan khusus di Sekolah Luar Biasa (SLB) Agca Center Manado. Dalam realitas sosial, anak-anak berkebutuhan khusus sering mengalami penolakan, diskriminasi, dan ketidakadilan karena keterbatasan fisik, mental, dan emosional yang mereka miliki. Gereja sebagai tubuh Kristus dipanggil untuk hadir dan merangkul mereka melalui pelayanan pastoral yang bersifat menyembuhkan, membimbing, menguatkan, mendamaikan, serta menumbuhkan nilai spiritual dan martabat hidup mereka. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif deskriptif untuk mengeksplorasi secara mendalam bagaimana praktik pendampingan pastoral diterapkan di SLB tersebut, serta dampaknya terhadap perkembangan iman, emosi, dan relasi sosial anak-anak. Melalui pendampingan pastoral yang dilakukan kepada anak berkebutuhan khusus, akan memulihkan identitas anak sebagai pribadi yang berharga di mata Tuhan. Melalui pengalaman nyata di SLB Agca Center, Gereja ditantang untuk lebih peka terhadap keberadaan kelompok yang rentan dan memperluas misinya untuk pemulihan dan kepedulian yang nyata di tengah masyarakat.
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Peran Konseling Pastoral dalam Membantu Orang Tua Workaholic untuk Menyadari Prioritas Hidup Keluarga
Dalam kehidupan modern, kecenderungan orangtua menjadi workaholic menjadi tantangan serius bagi keharmonisan keluarga. Fokus berlebihan pada pekerjaan sering kali menyebabkan peran emosional dan spiritual dalam keluarga terabaikan. Penelitian ini bertujuan mengkaji peran konseling pastoral dalam membantu orangtua workaholic menyadari kembali prioritas hidup mereka. Menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif dengan metode wawancara naratif, data diperoleh dari beberapa informan yang mengalami pola hidup tersebut. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa konseling pastoral berperan sebagai ruang refleksi spiritual dan pemulihan emosional. Melalui pendampingan yang intensional, konselor pastoral membantu orangtua memahami kembali makna keluarga sebagai panggilan ilahi dan membimbing mereka menyusun ulang prioritas berdasarkan nilai-nilai iman Kristen. Proses ini memberikan kesadaran baru akan pentingnya kehadiran dan relasi yang utuh dalam keluarga. Dengan demikian, konseling pastoral terbukti menjadi sarana transformatif yang relevan dalam menjawab kebutuhan spiritual dan relasional keluarga masa kini yang terdampak oleh workaholic.
Married by Accident dan Konflik Pasangan Pendampingan Interpersonal Pasangan Remaja di Desa Ratatotok
Usia remaja merupakan usia yang masih mencari jati diri dan sangat labil dalam mengambil sebuah keputusan. Tetapi ketika telah salah melangkah, para remaja dituntut untuk bertanggung jawab atas perbuatan tersebut. Hal ini seringkali menjadi penyebab konflik interpersonal diantara pasangan remaja yang kaweng tasalah karena tidak memiliki kesiapan. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk memberikan pendampingan bagi remaja yang rentan dengan konflik akibat terlalu dini menikah. Hasil penelitian yang didapat adalah banyak remaja yang telah mengikuti pergaulan buruk dan kenakalan remaja yang berdampak negatif bagi kehidupan para remaja ini termasuk kaweng tasalah. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif yang bersifat deskriptif-analisis. Hasil penelitian menunjukan bahwa remaja yang kaweng tasalah rentan terhadap konflik bahkan banyak kali terjadi KDRT. Kesimpulan yang didapat adalah walaupun para remaja telah memilih jalan yang salah, mereka perlu dituntun untuk membangun sebuah komitmen yang sungguh dalam kehidupan rumah tangga.
Tinjauan Logo Konseling terhadap Peran Orang Tua dalam Menjaga Identitas Iman Anak di Jemaat GMIM Immanuel Ratatotok
Usia 17-25 tahun seseorang memiliki perilaku seksual yang sudah jelas dan mulai mengembangkannya dalam bentuk hubungan pacaran. Desa Ratatotok memiliki keberagaman agama, hal ini membuat diusia 17-25 seseorang sering kali terlibat dalam cinta beda agama. Penelitian ini bertujuan dan fokus utama pada peran konseling keluarga menjaga identitas iman anak dalam menghadapi tantangan cinta beda agama dengan menerapkan tujuh dimensi permasalahan logo konseling yang dikemukan oleh Jacob Daan Engel dan Fredrik Hallatu . Metode yang digunakan dalam penelitian ini adalah metode penelitian kualitatif dengan pendekatan deskriptif dan pengumpulan data melalui wawancara dengan melibatkan langsung keluarga dan anak yang terlibat cinta beda agama. Melalui penelitian yang dilakukan, didapati bahwa anak yang terlibat cinta beda agama di Ratatotok disebabkan oleh konteks masyarakat yang berbeda agama, lingkungan menganggap bahwa cinta beda agama adalah wajar, rasa penasaran, ekonomi dan lemahnya peran orangtua. Inilah faktor penyebab terjadinya cinta beda agama di Ratatotok, masalah ini harus ditangani dengan serius, anak perlu dibimbing oleh keluarga agar tidak menjalani cinta beda agama apalagi sampai berpindah agama
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KAJIAN TEOLOGI PRAKTIS MENGENAI KEHADIRAN DALAM IBADAH PEMUDA DI JEMAAT GMIM SION PERAK SORONG
Church youth are often referred to as the backbone of the Church. Therefore youth also have an important role in the life of the Church. Many youths make worship only as a routine activity with certain intentions in worship. In addition, differences in family economic background also have an influence on the presence of young people in worship. This thesis contains the results of research on GMIM Sion Perak Sorong youth congregation. From the research results, the authors found that there were problems in youth organizations regarding their minimal attendance at worship. Therefore, the Church, in this case pastors and special ministers as well as parents, must play a role in motivating and guiding young people to be more active and earnest in participating in worship.
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Larangan Perempuan Berbicara dalam Jemaat: Kajian Hermeneutik terhadap 1 Korintus 14:34–35 dalam Konteks Sosial-Teologis
This study aims to interpret 1 Corinthians 14:34–35 through a historical-critical hermeneutical approach in order to understand the meaning of the prohibition against women speaking in the congregation. By examining the social, cultural, and argumentative context of Paul’s writing, this study evaluates whether the prohibition is theological-normative or pastoral-contextual. The analysis shows that the text emerged from a specific situation in the Corinthian church, which was facing liturgical disorder. Therefore, the prohibition should not be understood as a universal command, but rather as a pastoral response to a particular situation. This study proceeds with a constructive theological approach to formulate practical implications for today's church, especially in encouraging equal participation of women in ministry. The theology developed from this text should not restrict women’s roles but instead affirm their active and equal involvement in the life of the congregation.
Menakar Nasionalisme dalam Kehidupan Gereja KGPM Melalui Bingkai tema “Yesus Kristus dalam Kebangsaan – Kebangsaan dalam Yesus Kristus” Sebuah Penelusuran Eklesiologi Kebangsaan
Gereja merupakan milik Allah yang hadir dalam dunia untuk menghadirkan damai sejahtera bagi orang-orang. Tidak itu saja gereja dimaknai sebagai komunal maupun pribadi yang menjadikan tubuhnya sebagai Bait Allah itu sendiri. Melalu pemahaman tersebut gereja memiliki tanggung jawab untuk dengan sadar menarik orang-orang dari dalam kegelapan menuju terang Kristus yang menyelamatkan. Untuk itu gereja memiliki tugas penting untuk menjawab setiap persoalan, tantangan dan pergumulan umat di tengah konteks yang makin beragam. Tulisan sederhana ini menawarkan sebuah model eklesiologi yang baru dengan nuansa keindonesian. Eklesiologi kebangsaan merupakan sebuah hasil penelusuran sederhana dalam bingkai tema KGPM yakni Yesus Kristus dalam Kebangsaan – Kebangsaan dalam Yesus Kristus. Upaya ini dilakukan sebagai sebuah refleksi eklesial menapaki 92 tahun KGPM berdiri sebagai upaya pembebasan dari segala tekanan, penindasan dan penjajahan yang dilakukan gereja Belanda (Indisce Kerk) yang diyakini menjadi salah satu alat kolonialisme dan iperialisme. Kekhasan Eklesiologi KGPM terlihat dari sejarah berdirinya gereja dalam usaha pembebasan bahkan merupakan bagian dari upaya kemerdekaan Indonesia. Semangat nasionalisme yang timbul dari pemuda-pemuda Minahasa membuahkan sebuah gereja lokal dengan corak keindonesian yang menjunjung tinggi keadilan.
IMPLEMENTASI PASTORAL KONSELING TERHADAP GENERASI Z DALAM MENGHADAPI TANTANGAN DI ERA DIGITAL
Generasi Z yang tumbuh di tengah kemajuan teknologi informasi, mengalami transformasi yang signifikan dalam cara mereka berinteraksi, memperoleh informasi, dan menjalani kehidupan sehari-hari. Mereka dikenal karena kemampuannya yang canggih dalam memanfaatkan teknologi digital. Namun, perkembangan ini juga membawa dampak negatif yang tidak bisa diabaikan terhadap kesejahteraan mental dan emosional mereka. Berbagai tantangan, seperti kecemasan, stres akibat perbandingan sosial melalui media sosial, ketergantungan pada gadget, dan kesulitan dalam menjalin hubungan yang otentik dan sehat, menjadi isu mendasar yang harus dihadapi oleh generasi ini. Di tengah tantangan tersebut, konseling pastoral muncul sebagai pendekatan yang relevan untuk memberikan bimbingan yang berbasis prinsipprinsip Alkitabiah. Konseling pastoral tidak hanya menawarkan dukungan spiritual yang mendalam, tetapi juga membantu individu memahami dan mengatasi masalah mereka dari perspektif iman Kristen. Artikel ini bertujuan untuk menggali lebih dalam bagaimana gereja dan pemimpin spiritual dapat menerapkan teknik konseling pastoral yang tepat untuk membantu Generasi Z mengatasi tantangan di era digital.
Pastoral Konseling, Generasi Z, Era digital
Pelayanan Pastoral Responsif: Menjawab Kecemasan Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO) pada Generasi Z
Teknologi digital yang semakin berkembang telah membawa dampak besar terhadap cara hidup umat manusia terutama generasi Z, dalam hal ini tertuju pada interaksi sosial dan pencarian identitas diri. Salah satu dampak negatifnya adalah Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO) yaitu kecemasan akan ketertinggalan informasi, pengalaman atau tren yang sedang berlangsung. FOMO dapat mempengaruhi kesehatan mental, harga diri dan kehidupan spiritual Generasi Z. Artikel ini bertujuan untuk memahami karakteristik generasi Z, bentuk-bentuk FOMO yang mereka alami serta merumuskan pendekatan pelayanan Pastoral yang responsif terhadap pergumulan tersebut. Dengan menggunakan metode kualitatif-deskriptif serta pendekatan studi pustaka, tulisan ini menekankan pentingnya gereja sebagai komunitas yang empatik, inklusif dan relevan dengan dunia digital. Pelayanan pastoral yang mendengarkan secara aktif, meneguhkan identitas dalam Kristus, dan membangun komunitas sehat merupakan langkah strategis untuk mendampingi Generasi Z dalam menghadapi tekanan sosial akibat FOMO.
Pelayanan Pastoral, Responsif, Fear Of Missing Out, Generasi Z.
KRISIS IDENTITAS DAN SPIRITUALITAS PADA KAUM MUDA: MEMBERDAYAKAN KAUM MUDA DALAM MENCARI TUJUAN HIDUP
Identity crisis among youth is a complex challenge where individuals struggle to find their identity and meaning in life. This article discusses the importance of support from counselors, communities, and parents in helping adolescents face this crisis. Through a qualitative approach, this research explores the role of pastoral counselors in providing spiritual and emotional guidance, as well as effective counseling techniques such as faith-based cognitive-behavioral therapy and spiritual meditation. Furthermore, the article highlights the significance of collaboration among various parties to create a safe and supportive environment while providing the necessary resources for youth. Thus, this collective support is expected to empower young people in their search for spiritual meaning and life purpose.
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KONSELOR PASTORAL SEBAGAI SAHABAT PEMUDA DI ERA DIGITAL
Adolescence is a pivotal period in individual development, where adolescents experience significant changes in physical, mental, social and emotional aspects. One of the main challenges faced is the management of strong emotions, which is often influenced by their interactions on social media. In the digital world, many teens choose to express their feelings through online platforms, which often only results in superficial interactions and does not solve their emotional problems in depth. Excessive use of social media can actually exacerbate feelings of loneliness and anxiety, and worsen social isolation. Therefore, the role of the pastoral counselor as a friend who is present in person becomes very important. With a love and empathy-based approach, pastoral counselors not only listen to the confessions, but also provide deeper emotional support and spiritual guidance that help teens find balance in their lives. Pastoral counselors can be a safe space for teens to talk about their feelings, address anxieties, and understand life challenges from a broader perspective, away from the negative impact of social media. This approach helps teens build healthier relationships, both emotionally and spiritually, and leads them to face life more readily without depending on social media.
MEMBANGUN RESILIENSI ANAK: PERAN PASTORAL KONSELING TERHADAP KORBAN KEKERASAN SEXSUAL DI UPTD-PPAPROVINSI SULAWESI UTARA
Child abuse is an essential element in psychological recovery after sexual abuse. The study aims to review the role of counseling pastoral counseling in building signs of sexual abuse in uptd-ppa province of north sulawesi. The pastoral counseling approach creates a safe environment and provides emotional support for the victimized children, focusing on the restoration of their spiritual, emotional, and social aspects. Through guidance based on religious values, victims gain a better understanding of themselves and the strength to overcome trauma. The study involves a qualitative approach. Research shows that pastoral counseling interventions greatly contribute to raising children's self-esteem, alleviating anxiety, and building the necessary social skills to interact in society. Awakening consequences also help children overcome trauma and improve their quality of life. Thus, pastoral counseling plays a key role in the recovery of victims of sexual violence, emphasizing social and spiritual support on their journey of healing.
Resiliensi, Anak, Pastoral Konseling, Kekerasan Seksual, Pemulihan.
MELAYANI DENGAN HATI KEPEMIMPINAN PASTORAL DALAM MENYELESAIKAN KONFLIK GEREJA
Conflict in church life is often a challenge that spiritual leaders must face. In situations like these, pastoral leadership plays a crucial role in resolving emerging problems wisely and compassionately. This article aims to explore the concept of pastoral leadership in handling church conflicts through a serving approach with the heart. This approach emphasizes values ​​such as empathy, honest communication, and a commitment to maintaining peace despite differences. With an approach based on love, pastoral leaders are expected to be able to guide congregations towards reconciliation, strengthen relationships within the church community, and strengthen the foundation of their faith. This article also discusses various leadership strategies and principles that can be applied to resolve conflicts in accordance with Christian values, thereby encouraging harmony and unity in the church body.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY: PASTORAL KONSELING SEBAGAI PILAR PENGUATAN BAGI PASIEN PENYAKIT TERMINAL
This article discusses the role of pastoral counseling as a pillar of strengthening for terminal illness patients. Through a qualitative approach with a case study method, this study explores the experiences of patients, families, and pastoral practitioners in dealing with emotional and spiritual challenges. Findings show that pastoral counseling provides emotional validation, spiritual support, and improves family relationships, which contribute to the well-being of patients. This assistance not only helps patients accept the reality of death, but also provides meaning in their suffering. Thus, this study emphasizes the importance of integrating pastoral counseling in the healthcare system, especially in palliative care, to create a supportive environment for patients and their families.
Pastoral Counseling, Terminal Patients, Spiritual Support
DEFENSE MECHANISM REMAJA YANG MELAKUKAN SELF-HARM DI SMP NEGERI 1 KAWANGKOAN
Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengidentifikasi defense mechanism yang digunakan oleh remaja yang melakukan Self-harm di SMP Negeri 1 Kawangkoan dan mengajukan sterategi pastoral konseling. Metode kualitatif dengan pendekatan deskriptif digunakan untuk menggali pengalaman dan perspektif remaja mengenai faktor-faktor yang mendorong perilaku Self-harm, kaitan defense mechanism dan sterategi pastoral konseling untuk pencegahan serta penanganganannya. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa remaja sering menggunakan defense mechanism diri seperti represi, rasionalisasi, pengalihan, sublimasi dan identifikasi sebagai respons terhadap tekanan emosional dan konflik interpersonal. Kurangnya dukungan sosial dan akses terhadap layanan kesehatan mental memperburuk situasi ini. Temuan ini menggarisbawahi pentingnya intervensi yang holistik melalui pastoral konseling, yang tidak hanya berfokus pada pengurangan perilaku Self-harm tetapi juga pada pengembangan strategi coping yang sehat. Kesimpulannya, strategi pastoral konseling yang efektif dalam membantu remaja mengembangkan mekanisme coping yang sehat yaitu pemahaman mendalam tentang Self-harm dan Defense Mechanism, pendekatan holistik dalam konseling, pengembangan coping mechanism yang sehat, pemberdayaan dan Pendidikan, dukungan sosial dan keterlibatan komunitas, serta evaluasi dan penyesuaian strategi.
MEMULIHKAN JIWA DITENGAH KESIBUKAN : PERAN PASTORAL KONSELING BAGI PEKERJA DI UPTD PPA SULAWESI UTARA
This article discusses the role of pastoral counseling in the effort to restore the souls of workers at UPTD PPA North Sulawesi who face various psychological and spiritual challenges in carrying out their duties. This research employs a qualitative method with a descriptive approach through in-depth interviews with workers. The results show that workers face various challenges such as high workload, exposure to secondary trauma, security risks, and ethical dilemmas that significantly impact their mental health. Pastoral counseling emerges as an approach that integrates spiritual dimensions with psychological recovery, providing holistic support that encompasses emotional and spiritual aspects. Through the pastoral counseling approach, workers can find deeper meaning in their work, build spiritual resilience, and manage stress more effectively. This research provides important insights into how pastoral counseling can play a role in restoring and maintaining the mental health of workers amid challenging work demands.
Teologi Kasih dalam Konseling Pastoral: Pendekatan Solusi untuk Kenakalan Remaja
Juvenile delinquency is one of the significant challenges faced by modern societies, including Indonesia. Factors such as lack of affection, family conflicts, and environmental influences are often the main causes of deviant behavior. This study aims to analyze the application of love theology in pastoral counseling as a solution-oriented approach to address juvenile delinquency. The study employs a qualitative literature review method by analyzing relevant academic journals and books. The findings indicate that love theology, focusing on unconditional acceptance, forgiveness, and active love, plays an essential role in guiding adolescents toward spiritual recovery and moral transformation. This approach is considered effective in building empathetic relationships, providing spiritual support, and creating space for sustained character development.
Pastoral counseling, Juvenile delinquency, Unconditional acceptance, forgiveness
PENDEKATAN ‘PERSON-CENTERED THERAPY’ DALAM KONSELING PASTORAL UNTUK PENGHIBURAN DAN PENGUATAN ROHANI PASIEN KANKER
Cancer patients often experience emotional and spiritual distress that affects their quality of life. This study aims to analyze the application of Person-Centered Therapy (PCT) in pastoral counseling to provide spiritual comfort and strengthening for cancer patients. The theoretical study was conducted based on a qualitative approach with a library research method. PCT, developed by Carl Rogers, emphasizes empathy, unconditional acceptance, and active presence, making it relevant to the context of pastoral counseling. The results of the study indicate that the application of PCT can help cancer patients find the meaning of life, increase inner peace, and strengthen their spiritual relationship with God. This study concludes that PCT makes a significant contribution to pastoral care, especially for patients with complex emotional and spiritual needs.
Konseling Pastoral dengan Teknik Cognitive Restructuring pada Pelayan Khusus
Specialized waiters often face emotional and mental stress that can interfere with their health and the quality of service. Using cognitive restructuring techniques, this counseling aims to help the maids recognize and change their negative mindsets. Through the process of identifying, evaluating, and replacing negative thoughts with positive thoughts, servants are expected to improve their mental well-being. This study uses a qualitative method with in-depth interviews to explore the experience of servants in counseling. The results showed that this technique was effective in reducing stress and increasing the confidence of the servants, which in turn had a positive impact on their service to the congregation. These findings highlight the importance of counseling support for special caregivers in maintaining their mental and spiritual health.
PENDIDIKAN EMOSIONAL DALAM PASTORAL KONSELING UNTUK REMAJA
Emotional education plays a crucial role in adolescent development, especially in helping them manage emotions and build optimal emotional intelligence (EQ). This article discusses the role of emotional education in pastoral counseling for teenagers, designed to enhance their ability to face life's challenges, build healthy social relationships, and strengthen their character. Emotional intelligence includes self-management, relationship management, self-awareness, and social awareness, all of which can be trained and learned. In this context, pastoral counseling serves as an effective approach, integrating spiritual values such as love, forgiveness, and patience, while providing the community support essential for the emotional development of teenagers. Additionally, through techniques such as spiritual reflection, prayer, and Bible meditation, pastoral counseling helps teenagers overcome anxiety, control emotions, and improve the quality of interpersonal relationships. In conclusion, emotional education within pastoral counseling is an effective means of supporting the development of emotional intelligence in adolescents, using a holistic approach grounded in spiritual values.
Pendidikan, Pastoral Konseling, Kecerdasan Emosional
Strategi Gereja Dalam Menumbuhkan Iman di Jemaat GMIM Getsemani Maumbi
This introduction begins with the congregation assembly at the church in service which is expected to be an effort to develop the growth of faith of congregation members at the Evangelical Christian Church in Minahasa (GMIM) Gethsemane Maumbi Congregation, Eris District, Minahasa Regency, North Sulawesi. The aim of this research is to determine the assistance strategy for the congregation in strengthening the faith of the congregation. This research uses qualitative research with a case study approach as the research methodology. Interviews are used for data collection, and reduction, display, and verification are used for data analysis. The consequences of this examination show that faith growth is a successful strategy for developing congregational trust and faith growth. Conversations with the pastor, with the congregation, and assistance during difficult times are examples of pastoral care. The growth of the congregation's faith should be seen from the members of the congregation who were initially neither dynamic nor harmonious in worship, becoming determined to provide praise and worship in witnessing, fellowshipping and serving the church for God.
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